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Parents think teens get the emotional support they need. Kids disagree.

Parents think teens get the emotional support they need. Kids disagree.

Bridging the Gap: Teens' Mental Health Needs Overlooked by Parents

As families navigate an ongoing national mental health crisis among American children, a new report reveals a concerning disconnect between parents' perceptions and their teens' experiences. The survey data sheds light on the stark differences in how parents and their adolescent children view the availability of social and emotional support, underscoring the need for more open communication and understanding within families.

Uncovering the Disconnect: Teens Struggle with Lack of Support

Divergent Perspectives on Mental Health Support

The report, released by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, analyzed data from the National Health Interview Survey, which queried nearly 1,200 American adolescents aged 12-17 and about 4,400 parents between July 2021 and December 2022. The survey aimed to understand teen health from the teens' own perspectives, a rare opportunity in a landscape dominated by parent-reported surveys.The key finding was a striking disparity between parents' and teens' perceptions of the social and emotional support available to the adolescents. While over three-quarters of parents (77%) said their teenager always received the support they needed, only 28% of the teens reported the same. This disconnect was consistent across various subgroups, leaving researchers surprised by the magnitude of the gap.

Implications for Teen Mental Health

The implications of this disconnect are significant. Teens who indicated that they "sometimes," "rarely," or "never" received the support they needed were more likely to report experiencing anxiety or depression symptoms, as well as other negative health impacts. These adolescents were also more likely to report having low life satisfaction and poor sleep quality.The survey results have raised new questions that the researchers hope to address through further qualitative research. By better understanding how teens define and perceive social and emotional support, the team aims to shed light on the root causes of this disparity and identify ways to bridge the gap between parents' perceptions and their children's experiences.

The Ongoing Mental Health Crisis

The age cohort included in the survey has been grappling with a burgeoning mental health crisis for years, a trend that has only been exacerbated by the COVID-19 pandemic. In 2021, a CDC report found that 42% of U.S. high school students described feeling persistently sad or hopeless, and 29% reported experiencing poor mental health. The level of social isolation across the youth population has also steadily grown, prompting the U.S. surgeon general to release an advisory emphasizing the importance of social connection and community.

Disproportionate Impact on Vulnerable Communities

The mental health crisis is particularly amplified for children in vulnerable communities, as highlighted by the recent survey analysis. Tamar Mendelson, a professor and director at the Center for Adolescent Health at the Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health, notes that young people in marginalized communities often have to deal with trauma, food insecurity, housing instability, and community violence – factors that can have profound mental health implications.The survey results reflected this disproportionate impact, with girls, Black and Hispanic teenagers, and children who identified as LGBTQ being some of the least likely groups to report that they "always" or "usually" received the support they needed. Lower family income and lower parental education level were also associated with lower rates of perceived emotional and social support.

Bridging the Communication Gap

Mendelson suggests that the survey results highlight the need for parents to more meaningfully engage with their teens, acknowledging the challenges that come with this developmental stage. While many parents are constantly electronically tethered to their children, this oversight and overscheduling is not the same as providing the kind of supportive involvement that teens crave.The expert emphasizes the importance of creating opportunities for open dialogue, noting that many parents have found success in casual settings, such as during car rides, where teens may feel more relaxed and willing to share. The key, she says, is to slow down, avoid assumptions, and actively check in with teenagers about their needs and experiences.By bridging the communication gap and fostering a deeper understanding of their teens' mental health needs, parents can play a crucial role in supporting their children during this critical period of development and addressing the ongoing mental health crisis affecting the nation's youth.

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